Can MEN and WOMEN be plantonic friends, or are they really having an emotional affair?

[IAmGwoods]

Yolanda L. Harris at 9:36pm April 22 via IPraise Mobile
Yes I think men & women CAN have a platonic friendship.

Jessica Denise Arbuthnot at 9:49pm April 22 via IPraise Mobile
Yes, we can be platonic friends without having a hidden emotional relationship. The reason is that no one's attracted to every person of the opposite sex, some ppl are just here 4companionship only...

Kd Bowe at 10:47am April 23
NOPE! If you're attracted to them (not 'find them attractive'.. there's a difference) there is nothing platonic about that.

Michelle WalkerDavis at 10:59am April 23
if one is and the other isnt...then yes...but if both attracted to one another...then NO!

Kd Bowe at 11:02am April 23
Don't matter Michelle (in my opinion) one or both.. it will 'taint' the relationship either way

DrLisa M. Tait at 11:20am April 23
Whewww! I think you might have a point there KD. But the issue is that many times people hide their attraction (denial) until it creeps up, then BOOOOM!

[Robert T Sells]

Yes I think it is possible as long as both people are willing to accept it as such. But be careful because this is the devil's playground. What you think won't happen the devil can cause to happen! Don't give the devil an open door.

[Sandra Fletcher]

YES WE CAN! In the most profound lyrics of my man Donald Lawrence, "Let's get back to Eden" on this you all. This is what's wrong with the BODY (Christians) now, we camp out strattling the fence too much. These are the days that are trying men souls and we have to practice denying the flesh more. If we would just start with exploring each others character more we can develop those everlasting friendships without a threat. Now if something jumps off and you never saw it coming then so be it and to God be all the glory!

Peace

[Claudia B. Ratcliff]

Yes, I know men and women can be only friends ,without strings attached. It all depends on the individuals - it will take alot of maturity to pull this one off - but it can be done.

[Dionne LaShawn McClure]

Yes it is possible, however, no likely! Only those with the proper training can do it! Platonic love is a deep and spiritual connection between two individuals: within such a relationship there does not exist any form of sexual connection or sexual elements. This is type of relationship we are SUPPOSED to first develope with Our Lord and Savior Jesus Chirst. And with this training, being able to share love without a physical connection, should be attainable. BUT THE PROBLEM IS we don't seek TRUE friends--we only talk to people "we're physically attracted too".

[Kristi Pinkston-Price]

I KNOW I CAN, CAN'T SPEAK FOR ANYONE ELSE......

[DJ Cue]

If you are single, and ready for a serious relationship, then I say no. You cannot be platonic with someone who you are attracted to, and there not be anything in the way of you two "testing the waters" with each other. I'm sure you've heard newly married couples say, "oh he was my BEST friend, my soulmate!". However, if you are married, or in a relationship, take a moment to consider the domino effect that will occur if you cross the line with your "friend". Think about how many hearts will be hurting, and homes will be broken if you don't keep it "platonic". I think it becomes an emotional affair when you are constantly flirting with the idea of getting with your "friend" up close and personal. When you find yourself fantasizing about your "friend" and playing out these "what if" scenarios in your head, I say you are having an affair. Again, if you are single, it's all good; if you're married, then you need Jesus!

[Natasha David-Walker]

Yes, but they must keep the conversations sanctified or things can get out of hand. God created us to enjoy each other, but if you are married I think the best policy is for couples to merge their friendships or there will be trouble.